I have a question, about a Guy someone Please Answer?!?

Ok so my last name is Richards like Denise Richards, and this guy I like looks like Neil Patrick harris, but Neil Patrick harris is Gay, and I heard denise richards and Neil Patrick harris are friends or acquaints, because they starred in two films together Starship troopers, and Undercover Brother. Well how do I stop making the connection that the Guy I like who looks like Neil Patrick Harris and my last name Richards- is anything like them, And how do I like that Guy anyway if he Looks like a Gay guy who is friends with someone who has the same Last Name as me, Any Suggestions?